An airline told a breastfeeding woman to cover up, social media weighed in

Dutch airline KLM has found itself in the middle of a heated debate over breastfeeding in public, after the company said it might ask women to cover themselves while breastfeeding onboard if other passengers said they were offended.

>> Palko KaraszThe New York Times
Published : 18 July 2019, 06:29 PM
Updated : 18 July 2019, 06:29 PM

The issue came to light after Shelby Angel, a woman from Sacramento, California, wrote about her experience on a KLM flight this summer in a post on Facebook on Sunday.

“Before we even took off, I was approached by a flight attendant carrying a blanket,” she wrote, saying she was told that if she wanted to breastfeed her 1-year-old daughter, she should cover up. When Angel refused, she said, the crew member told her that if anyone complained, it would be for Angel to deal with.

Nobody complained, Angel said.

As the post spread online, other social media users turned to Twitter to confront the airline. KLM’s response has been consistent: Breastfeeding is allowed onboard as long as no other passengers are offended by the practice.

“To ensure that all our passengers of all backgrounds feel comfortable on board, we may request a mother to cover herself while breastfeeding, should other passengers be offended by this,” the airline wrote in a post on Twitter on Tuesday.

Breastfeeding in public has been the subject of a decadeslong debate, with some arguing that it is a natural practice and others saying that it’s a matter of public decency. In 1975, The New York Times called the practice a “growing trend,” quoting a woman who said she was not embarrassed to nurse her son in a restaurant or at a dinner party.

More recently, the debate has motivated prominent figures to stand up for the right to do what they consider normal and natural. In 2017, a photo of Larissa Waters, an Australian senator who breastfed her baby in Parliament, attracted attention around the world.

Some experts even recommend breastfeeding during a flight’s takeoff and landing to ease the pressure in the baby’s ears.

Yet even as the sight of mothers feeding their babies in public places has become more common in the West, women have continued to be shamed and belittled.

Some countries have introduced legal protection for women’s right to breastfeed in public. All 50 states in the United States have laws that specifically allow women to breastfeed in any public or private place. And in Britain, among other countries, it is illegal to ask a breastfeeding woman to leave a public place such as a restaurant or on public transportation.

KLM’s Twitter post Tuesday drew thousands of responses, many of them stunned and furious, asking the airline to change its policy — or pledging never to fly with the company again.

As questions kept coming in, KLM repeated its message. On Thursday, a spokeswoman did not reply to a request for comment.

Some Twitter users turned to KLM’s competitors to ask about their own breastfeeding policies.

British Airways wrote in a response Thursday: “We carry thousands of infants and their families on our flights every year, and we welcome breastfeeding on board.”

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